Level 2 NARM Therapist Training

Healing Developmental Trauma (NeuroAffective Relational Model®, NARM®)

NARM® is a comprehensive psychodynamic and somatic approach to treating the consequences of developmental and relational trauma. NARM® draws on psychodynamic models such as object relations theory; attachment theory, as well as on interpersonal neurobiology and somatic mindfulness. It offers a process-oriented approach to working in the here and now.

NARM® works relationally in the present moment, offering a new approach that is resource-oriented, non-regressive, non-cathartic and non-pathologising. Drawing on interpersonal neurobiology, It works with early, unconscious patterns of disconnection that profoundly affect our identity, emotions, physiology, behaviour and relationships. Learning how to work with these different elements simultaneously, is a radical shift that has profound clinical implications for healing developmental trauma and supporting personal and relational growth.

The main focuses of the training are:

  • different skills required for working with developmental trauma;
  • addressing the complex interplay between nervous system dysregulation and identity distortions such as toxic shame and guilt, low self-esteem, chronic self-judgement and other psychobiological symptoms;
  • working with affects and emotions, aiming to support psychobiological completion;
  • working with early adaptive survival styles that have helped clients survive difficult circumstances but distort their current life experience, moment to moment;
  • supporting clients in a process of disengagement from identity distortions.

More information about NARM®:

NARM article by Tobias Konermann


Detailed training program

The NARM ™ Practitioner Training Program Curricullum: A Practitioner Training for Healing Developmental Trauma
Topic OverviewTopics and schedule subject to change by instructor.

Module 1 includes:

  • NARM Organizing Principles
  • NARM Theoretical Orientation
  • Differentiating Interventions for working with Shock vs. Developmental Trauma
  • Working Top-Down and Bottom-Up
  • Tracking Connection & Disconnection
  • Developmental Process: Attachment & Separation-Individuation
  • Reframing Attachment and Attachment Loss
  • The Distortion of the Life Force Model
  • Distress and Healing Cycles
  • 5 Adaptive Survival Styles
  • Connection Survival Style
  • Attunement Survival Style
  • NARM 4 Pillars: Clinical Model
  • NARM Pillar 1: Establishing a Therapeutic "Contract"
  • NARM Pillar 2: Asking Exploratory Questions
  • Deconstruction of Experience (in the function of Disidentification)
  • "Drilling Down": A Process of Challenging Assumptions & Clarifying Experience

Module 2 includes:

  • The NARM Relational Model
  • Working Hypothesis
  • Identifying Core Dilemma: Core Themes vs Survival Strategies (Behaviors, symptoms, etc.)
  • Trust Survival Style
  • Autonomy Survival Style
  • Love-Sexuality Survival Style
  • NARM Pillar 3: Supporting Agency (Agency as the Foundation for the Development of Adult Self)
  • NARM Pillar 4: Reflecting Positive Shifts
  • NARM Languaging

Module 3 includes:​

  • NARM Model for Working with Affect
  • Primary vs Default Emotions
  • Emotional Completion
  • The Psychobiological Process of Shame ("Shame as a Verb not a Noun"; "Shame as a Process not a State")
  • Shame, Guilt & Self-Hatred
  • Working with Anger & Aggression
  • Countertransference in NARM
  • Unmanaged Empathy and Therapist Efforting
  • Narcissism and Objectification of Self
  • Narcissistic vs Sadistic Abuse
  • NARM Personality Spectrum

​Module 4 includes:

  • Deepening Study into the Connection Survival Style Issues, Symptoms and Related Disorders
  • The Interplay of the Survival Styles: Primary and Secondary Patterns
  • Revisiting the Dynamics of Attachment, Separation-Individuation, Attachment Loss and the Core Dilemma
  • Relationships, Couples, Intimacy and Sexuality
  • Survival Styles & the Polyvagal Theory
  • NARM & the Body
  • Working with Identity
  • Transgenerational Trauma
  • Disidentification Process
  • "Cutting the Cord": Freedom from Identity
  • Post-Traumatic Growth
  • Resiliency: Supporting the Capacity to Tolerate Increasing Complexity
  • Integrating NARM Effectively Into Our Clinical Practice

Practicioner training Agreement 

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Application form

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Bank information for the transfer

BAN: SI56 0400 0027 8698 110
SWIFT BIC:
KBMASI2X
Beneficiary:
Karima Valentina Hočevar s.p.

NOTE: When making the bank transfer, please be sure to include YOUR NAME and NARM26 in the document. After completing the transfer, kindly send the confirmation to karima@mudita-institute.com via email.

Course schedule

  • 1st module:

    July 15-19 2026

  • 2nd module:

    December 2-6 2026

  • 3rd module:

    June 9-13 2027

  • 4th module:

    November 24-28 2027

Venue

City Hotel Ljubljana, Dalmatinova 15, Ljubljana, Slovenia

Teacher

  • Tobias Konermann

    Tobias Konermann

Prerequisites for participation:

Participants need to have a professional background in the field of psychosocial health (psychologists, psychiatrists, psychotherapists, counsellors, social workers, occupational therapists, etc.) and in addition to have completed a training in a psychotherapeutic modality with at least 2 years practical/clinical experience of regular contact with clients/patients.

Language

English only

Teacher

Tobias Konermann

Tobias Konermann

Tobias Konermann is a clinical psychologist and certified psychotherapist in private practice in Berlin, Germany. He is a certified teacher of the Neuro-Affective Relational Model (NARM) and has assisted Laurence Heller and other teachers with various trainings and masterclasses across Europe over the past 10 years. He has received extensive clinical training in cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) and EMDR, as well as additional training in Gestalt and process-oriented approaches. He teaches at several psychotherapy and counselling training institutes (DGVT, HAP and IMU) in Germany, specialising in the treatment of developmental trauma.

Course schedule

The training was postponed. New dates will be announced.

  • 1st module

    July 15-19 2026

  • 2nd module

    December 2-6 2026

  • 3rd module

    June 9-13 2027

  • 4th module

    November 24-28 2027

Each module begins at 10 a.m. on the first day. Please come at 8.30 a.m. at the latest, because of the registration.

Venue

City Hotel Ljubljana

Dalmatinova 15, Ljubljana, Slovenia

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Price

  • Registration fee*

    500 € Payable one month before the first module.

  • 1st to 4th instalment

    2x 1.240 € + 1x 1.245 € Payable no later than 10 days before the first day of classes of the respective module.

  • entire training

    4.225 € The price includes the registration fee and covers payment for four modules, which can be paid in 4 instalments.

* The registration fee is a non-refundable initial fee that covers the costs of recruiting participants and at the same time constitutes a commitment that the place reserved by the participant will be used by the participant. Please also note that there are additional costs in form of individual sessions and supervisions.

Register

Fill out the form and receive all the instructions and documentation required for registration to your email address.

Terms and payment of application

Based on the online application we will send you a mandatory application which you should print out, sign, and send back to us at Mudita Institute email: karima@mudita-institute.com.

To confirm your application for a Healing Developmental Trauma (NeuroAffective Relational Model®, NARM®) training, you pay an application fee of €500. This reserves you a spot in the group and confirms your presence for all education modules. 

Before each module, you should pay the price of the module. The price of the entire training is €4.225. You can pay in instalments. If you pay at once, you receive a 5% discount for a total price of €4.013,75.